Monday, July 18, 2005

Friends and close friends

Tea time is a usually the discussion time for us. 'us' here includes myself, and two of my colleagues: Sumanth and Rasmita. The topic this day was somewhat about 'friends and best friends'. There were some very common things which all of us had experienced and thought about:

1. There are friends and what you generally call 'best friends'

2. There are different categories of 'best friends'

3. As life advances you wont be a 'best friend' with anyone, but you will be a 'friend' to many people

1> Our definition of 'best friend' is 'some one with whom you are more "close with"'. If you are more close, you share emotional bonding, each one knows about other's emotional needs.

2> And there are different categories of 'best friends'. One with whom you have fun, one with whom you pour out your anxieties, your fears, basically a shoulder to cry on.

3> As life 'advances', 'advances' in our context meant when you move out of college, you generally stop being a 'best friend' with anyone. You generally do not have anyone to share your secrets (if there are any, after spending most of the time in office!), to share your fears/anxieties. Some of us felt its got to do with being 'mature' and some felt its go to do with 'time', you just dont have the 'time' to be a 'close friend'

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Its very true.

While growing up, we have lots of stages and sub-stages in life, we meets different group of people everytime. Among them, some becomes closure and more closure to us. We shares our emotions, feelings, sorrows, happiness; we do fun with them, we do fight with them :)...These all becomes more meaningful while studying. But when the new life phase starts i.e., after getting a job and more concentrating towards career and future life, a person really gets busy in life. These sharing of emotions gets restricted. There are few villains who restricts to maintain best-friendship, those are lack of innocent feeling(clean heart), jealousy, busy life, competition, more concern towards self name fame and success. I can bet if we still keep our innocence inside us and don't let these villains rule us, we can keep the same relationship with our closed ones.

 
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